Entering into the Realm of Eternal Bliss

Relief from the anxiety-ridden horror movie of material existence is easily within the reach of everyone. One just has to know and apply the simple technique for opening the door to that amazingly wondrous other side of reality. That's all. There is an astonishingly good looking, supremely powerful, totally renounced, knowledgeable, wealthy super star out there who is the source of all existence. He is inviting you into His transcendental realm of eternal bliss. And He has given the secret passwords that unlock the door so that you can enter into that most amazing realm:

Hare Krishna, Hare Krishna, Krishna Krishna, Hare Hare
Hare Rama, Hare Rama, Rama Rama, Hare Hare

With Guru Das at Riga, Latvia Airport Arrival
9 April 2012

Sankarshan Das With Guru Das at Riga, Latvia Airport Arrival

Answers by Citing the Vedic Version

Question: How Can I Stop Sexual Urges?

Hare Krishna, Maharaja,
Please accept my humble obeisances,

Please forgive me should if I mention anything inappropriate, but I am really trying hard to stop my sexual urges and am unable to. I am not yet married, but I don't sleep with any woman. However, due to the urges, I am unable to stop masturbating.

Would that be considered as illicit sex? How do I put an end to that?

Does illicit sex include having sex with one's wife with the intention to enjoy and not conceive a child? If one of the partners wishes to have sex for sense gratification but the other wishes to control, what can the person do in that situation?

Once again, I am really sorry for mentioning anything that I shouldn't have. Please bless me so that I can continue up the ladder of Krishna Consciousness.

Your Servant,
A.N.

Answer: Tolerate the Urge and It Will Go Away

Yes, masturbation is illicit sex. Sex desire is like an itch. The more you scratch it, the more it itches. So if you want to become completely free from sex desire, you must not scratch the itch. If you will tolerate it, it will eventually go away. Simply you must train yourself to tolerate the sex itch without being disturbed. If your nose was itching and you felt an urgent need to scratch it but someone offered you a million dollars if you did not scratch it, could you tolerate the urge to scratch it? Sure you could. For a million dollars it would be well worth it. So kindly understand that the value of tolerating the sex urge is greater than one million dollars and tolerate it. Always remember that you are not your body and detach yourself from your body's urge for sex pleasure.

While sex with one's wife according to the guidelines of the scriptures is divine, non-procreational sex with one's wife is illicit sex. In fact, it is so undesirable that Srila Prabhupada describes it as prostitution his purport to Srimad Bhagavatam, Third Canto, Chapter 14, Text 33:

"In other words, sex life with one's wife is equal to prostitution if the regulations are not properly followed."

Human life means to do what Krishna wants. Animal life means to do what your senses want. Therefore if one partner wants to avoid illicit sex and the other partner wants to have illicit sex, the person who is being overwhelmed by lust should learn from the self-controlled person how to bring their lust under control.

In the Srimad Bhagavatam, there is a history of Kasyapa Muni and his wife Diti. Diti became afflicted with a lusty desire for sex at an inappropriate time. Because Diti was so desperately craving sex Kasyapa foolishly gave in to his wife's lusty desire. As a result of this inauspicious act of sex, two demons were born who terrorized the entire universe. We should learn from this that instead of giving in to the lusty desires of one partner, one should remain self-controlled and teach the other partner how to also be self-controlled. This is will create a very favorable situation for both the husband and wife to advance in Krishna consciousness. And then if they want to have children and if they follow the prescribed guidelines, they will attract an advanced transcendentalist to take birth in their family.

Sankarshan Das Adhikari

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